Becoming a Befriender:

Becoming a befriender is about developing a trusting and caring relationship with someone who may be isolated or lacking in confidence as a result of a mental health problem. Befriending is not an offer of a permanent friendship but is a limited commitment which focuses on helping the befriendee to regain a feeling of self worth and taking part in social activities together.

What are the personal qualities of a befriender?

The qualities we are looking for in befrienders include:

• Empathy & Acceptance
• Patience & Warm personality
• Reliability & an ability to listen
• A genuine liking for people
• A willingness to be guided and learn as you go

What does Befriending involve?

All befriending relationships are different depending on the needs of those who need befriending. It involves offering support with two options: Option one whereby meetings are on a one-to-one basis for an hour or so a week and this will usually be for up to one year. Option two is where one-to-one support is provided for a maximum of 6 months. Meetings are more regular with those who would benefit from a higher level of support.

Who can become Befrienders?

People of all ages and backgrounds can become volunteer befrienders. Befrienders are not professionals and previous experience is not necessary. If you have valuable life skills to share and time to give or if you are looking for a way of developing skills and experience in voluntary work or if you had past personal experience of mental distress, we will train and support you to become a befriender.

How can I find out more about becoming a volunteer befriender?

Please contact the Befriending Worker for further details and an application pack on: 0208 906 7502/3

What happens next?:

Following on from your application form, we will ask you to meet with us. We will then write to your two referees and invite you to attend a mandatory preparation training course. We will also require you to complete a Criminal Police Bureau check. Once matched, we will provide on-going support by telephone, one to one meetings as well as support at group meetings. Volunteers can claim travel and out of pocket expenses. We will provide a Certificate on completion and provide references if required.

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